My good friend Dan Hammer (Pastor/Apostle - Sonrise Christian Center click here) shared a dilemma he sometimes faced and was unsure about how to answer it. Sometimes people would throw up a statement something like this, "how can a loving God send people to hell." He prayed about this for a while and this is what he shared the Lord showed him (to the best of my recollection).
Imagine you as a father prepare a trip for your family to Disney Land. It is the happiest place on earth right? You take care of the flights, hotel, food, and in fact, you've made arrangements so everything is paid in advance. But your family chooses to go to Mukilteo.
Did the father send them there or is that just where they chose to go?